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| International Union of Muslim Women and Aminah Assilmi at the 2009 ISNA Convention in Washington DC |
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| Assalamu Alaikoum and thank you for stopping by. The IUMW was well represented at the ISNA Convention this year and rumors to the contrary, Aminah Assilmi is still alive! The number of people who stopped in shock when they saw her there was incredible. No, she was not invited to speak this time but who knows about next year. The following photos were shot around the convention and cannot begin to show how exciting it was for everyone. Please enjoy them. (The above comments were made after the 2009 ISNA Convention. Aminah Assilmi died March 5th, 2010. She will be missed) |
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| Tell Us About Islam in Seven Words We live in a time of complexity. Our lives consist of lists of chores. Is it time to pick up kids? Can I make it to the store? What will I fix for dinner tonight? How can it be time for Prayer? We forget about taking time for us. We need to take time to reflect. We need to make the complex, simple. There is a story about Ernest Hemingway. Once, he was sitting in a bar. A fellow drinker made him a bet. “You can’t write a six word story.” Hemingway replied that he’d take that bet. Here is the tale that he wrote; “For Sale, Baby Shoes. Never Worn.” A short story with lots of meaning. But what about the meaning in our lives. Can a few words tell our story? Islam to the point? Just the basics? But using seven words instead of six? IUMW invites you to share your faith. Tell us your Islam in seven words. It isn’t as simple as it sounds! Seven little words: No More, No Less. You can use any punctuation you like. Or do without any punctuation at all. Your story should be from the heart. Something that can go on bumper stickers. An short explanation of Islam for seekers. Writing down the Believers relationship with God. Please take a look at these examples I was born Christian. Found God. Allah Akbar. Existed. Found Allah. Received Peace and Love I’m responsible for my actions. I’m Muslim. Muslims are not Terrorists. Terrorists are Terrorists. Born Muslim. Didn’t Know. Now I do. Bear Witness, There’s No God except God. Saved but unsure. Kept looking. Became Muslim. Now it’s your turn to write one. You can make it a family project. Share seven words of faith with friends. Ask people in your Masjid to participate. And send the best ones to us. IUMW would like to post your submissions. Don’t you want to share your insights? You can do dawah with seven words. Maybe you can even open a heart. |
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| Traveling While Muslima |
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| Traveling While Muslima (But That Is The World We Live In) reported by Nadiah Beekun My daughter was attending the Winter Break MYNA (Muslim Youth of North America) camp in Texas. Because of all of the weather problems canceling and/or delaying flights, and because we both wear hijab, I had arranged to accompany her on her flight, fly home and then come back the following week. Of course we had the usual scrutiny by TSA but, being experienced Muslima travelers, we had already taken the usual precautions of not wearing ANY metal (you can buy plastic or ceramic scarf pins...) and wearing slip on shoes. While our outfits left a lot to the imagination, they were not burqas and they were not “middle eastern.” Whenever I travel, my carryon ALWAYS gets an extra long look under the x-ray machine and you should see the expressions when I don’t buzz even at the highest setting. They must have a switch back there because I did set off an alarm once when the only metal I had was in a couple of tooth fillings. And yet on that flight, I ended up sitting right next to a woman who pulled out a 5”file and began doing her nails halfway through the trip. The flight attendant didn’t even say anything while serving us our beverages. This time I got a triple dose of “special treatment” when I went back to Dallas in order to pick up my daughter. Again, I didn’t set off any noises going through security, and again, I was still pulled over for additional screening. This time I was traveling in a blue denim dress with a paisley scarf and gray skirt to complete the ensemble. Not bulky, not revealing, but obviously not like everyone else. The young woman who was chosen to “pat” me asked her co-worker why I needed to be checked when I hadn’t triggered the alarm. “Because they might have liquids or other stuff in bottles under those bulky clothes.” He told her. Boy, that pisses me off. I am standing there and now I am a “THEY.” But I have a flight to catch and a daughter to pick up and there are some battles that are better fought with laughter. “Hey, watch that bulky clothes talk! That is all my lusciousness under there and you should be glad I am not exposing it all to the world like a big gal in spandex.” I think I left them all with disturbing images and laughter as the screener did a quick brush over the clothes and passed me through. And then I arrived in Dallas. My flight was held on the tarmac for quite awhile and by the time I reached the gate, my daughter and her ride were already waiting for me. Trying to locate each other was a major hassle and I exited through the wrong door. Fortunately, I had my e-ticket for the return flight with me, so I rejoined the security que and waited my turn to enter. Not many people waiting and everyone goes through fairly quickly until I get up to the screening portal. The attendant motions me back for a moment, makes an adjustment and then beckons me forward. Guess what! I didn’t beep! But I still get asked to step aside for special screening. I see the screener coming over and smile at her as she dons those pretty little blue gloves like I might have a disease or something. It is like being stopped for speeding and everybody is watching you as they pass by and thinking “I wonder what she did wrong?” Only I didn’t do anything wrong, I am just traveling while Muslima. I make my usual joke about my “pulchritudenal beauty” and she laughs. And then I see something that stops my laughing. Another woman has gone through the screening portal and she has set off the buzzers. About my age, about my size, but wearing regular looking “American” clothes. They send her back through and the alarm goes off again. But she has rings on, and big earrings, and bracelets and necklaces. They don’t ask her to take them off. They don’t wave her over for a pat down or to use the wand. They just say go ahead. I am rude. I know that the people who are carrying out acts of terrorism are not the people who look like me. Terrorists don’t wear hijab or follow Islam. Terrorists are the ones who try to blend in and avoid notice in airports and while traveling. I too, am concerned for my safety on a plane! That is why I allow my personal dignity as a Muslim and as an American to be eroded by overzealous TSA people. But as I said, I am rude. I say to my screener and to the other screener, “Aren’t you going to screen her?” They look at me. “What do you mean?” The lady who got the free pass into the airport just stares at me but keeps on walking, grabs her stuff off of the belt and leaves. I repeated my words. “Aren’t you going to screen her? She set off the alarm twice, you didn’t make her remove her jewelry and you didn’t pat her or use a wand on her. Why?” My screener, her patting down of me over, tells me to go ahead, but doesn’t answer my question. I go over to someone who appears to be in charge, and turn so that I am facing him and still addressing the two other screeners and said, “Excuse me. I think that I am being profiled and that you have a real double standard here. I don’t set off the alarm and should be allowed to pass but you called me over. That lady set off the alarms twice and you let her go through without checking her. The only answer I got was “But that is the world we live in.” I was soooo mad. But It was happening quickly and I wasn’t thinking about taking down names and badge numbers. Besides, do you know what happens when you challenge these TSA people? You get taken to back rooms and held for hours and then get put on no fly lists. Don’t believe me? Did you see the few reports in the media on the group of Muslims who were taken off a plane because two teenage girls got nervous when they heard a husband and wife in the group talking about where in the plane was the safest place to sit? That happened about a week ago. Besides, I had a daughter to find and a plane home to catch. So I find my daughter, and get the biggest hug. Mommy kiss the broken finger she got during camp and thank the Camp Counselor who had stayed with her. The counselor also gave us a ride to a building nearer our departure gate (remember, DFW is huge!) and upon entering the security area, we both got pulled aside for special attention. OK, you expect it but it still is not right that we are always singled out for “random screening.” (In fact, during my trip, I don’t recall anybody else being randomly chosen, except for Muslims...hmmm.) We are now sitting by our gate with an hour and a half to go until our flight boards. My daughter is dozing next to me, her head resting against her carryon. Late nights and early mornings at a MYNA camp can really take it out of you. I am kind of reading a book. It is open and in my hands but I am also watching the planes outside landing and leaving. I am also watching her. Don’t tell her, but I did miss her while she was gone. She has already told me a million things, and I know that she still has a lot more to say, but for now she is quiet. The seats across from us are beginning to fill, first with an elderly couple and at the end, a man with a laptop. He is shortly joined by a big man who is obviously impatient. The man on the computer asks what took him so long, and looking directly at me, he says, “Damn Security. Some people had to go and ruin it for all of the rest of us!” I can’t help it. I look right back at him and commented “Damn Right. Some people DO go and ruin it for all of the rest of us.” Wow! Today I have been a “They” and a “Some people” all because “that is the world we live in.” That is almost as good as being told to “go back to where you come from.” in Costco, or “My, you speak English so well. What country are you from?” I usually respond with “But I don’t want to go back to California!” and “I don’t know if you have ever heard of my country...it is a little place called Los Angeles?” I guess the guy across from me realized how impolite he had been because after awhile he looked over again at my sleepy daughter and said “Pretty tired.” Me, I don’t hold grudges – I do dawah. “Yeah, she was at camp for a week, and now we are flying home.” He nods. I go on, “I hope that the plane isn’t late because her brother’s plane is scheduled to fly out about an hour after we get back.. We hope to meet him at the airport.” I go on. “He’s an E-5 (enlisted) in the Navy and shipping out in a couple of days. He’s already been in Iraq twice.” Boy am I chatty but the man is still listening. “I was in the Navy too, but I told him to go in as an Officer instead of enlisted. Does he listen to his Mother? No, he gets tired of taking my orders and now he is taking theirs.” And I laugh and he smiles. I am no longer a “some people.” If you notice officials have definitely discriminated against you, then note down all of the information on the spot with names, times, the location, and if there were any witnesses. From there, lodge a complaint against the airlines with the Department of Transportation's Aviation Consumer Protection Division. You can also call them at (202) 366-2220 or send an e-mail to airconsumer@ost.dot.gov. In addition, you can send detailed complaint letters to them at the following address: Aviation Consumer Protection Division U.S. Department of Transportation 400 7th Street, S.W. Washington, D.C. 20590 You should also contact : Administrator Transportation Security Administration 601 South 12th Street Arlington, VA 22202-4220 TSA-ContactCenter@dhs.gov or call: 1-866-289-9673 You should also contact organizations like the Council on American-Islamic Relations (CAIR), where you can also fill out an incident report. |
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